Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Mediumship: Comforting The Widow

Last night I did a gift of spiritual service for a widow.

It was both an honor and a pleasure to help the husband and wife reconnect emotionally once more.

He was a mechanic who died suddenly, leaving her with two young adult children. I felt him loud and clear. He was so polite he even excused himself because he knew I had only one half hour to give in my busy schedule. My son, who was supposed to set the timer for his homework, didn't. And I was unable to see a clock from where I was. So the husband kindly kept track of the time.

What is mediumship?

I have a bandwidth on my soul that allows me to communicate with those who have passed. I don't know why it's like this. But it has pretty much always been this way for me. It took a little training and some practice to get proficient at it,  Fortunately there are classes you can take for this purpose, and I have taken them.

Here are some of the key steps to mediumship:

Protect the Space and Establish The Connection To Source:
I asked the archangels to create a safe space for this communication to take place. I also shielded myself energetically since I am an empath and want to keep my vibration from being affected by the emotion of the widow. A big part of this is letting go and trusting what 'comes in'.

Introductions and Explaining What To Expect With The Client:
Although this service was a gift, I needed to let the widow know how much time we had, and that I was open and ready for whatever messages came through and questions she would like answered.

Actual Mediumship:
I heard him come in loud and clear. He explained how he had actually missed several accidents and extended his life contract as much as he could, but when it was his time, it was his time, and that was why it was so sudden. He reassured her of his love and appreciation of her. He also had a message for his children who have stepped up in their responsibility to work hard and help with the family in his absence. He said he was happy where he was. There was no pain. She was the best thing that ever happened to him; he was happy the whole time he was married to her. And she was just as beautiful to him now as the day they first met.

He says he sees her at night, but she can't remember. He takes her dancing because she likes dancing. 

His mother also came in for a message. She explained how when she died, she missed her son very much. Now he is with her. She understands the feeling of separation the wife is having now, because of how she felt when she first passed and could not have contact with her son. She loves her daughter-in-law very much, and misses her. She explains how because she has been there longer, she can also make the messages and signs come through to her daughter-in-law during the day, perhaps with pennies or other small signs that in her heart the daughter-in-law will know that it came from her. She reassured the widow that her husband is well-taken care of and doesn't want for anything where he is. And she said to talk to her, in Spirit, in her heart. She will listen. And there is a photograph in the house that is framed, with her in the group, and to talk to that for focus as well.

Clarification and Education About Basic Spiritual Facts:
Does it hurt you to do this? the widow asked me in earnest.
Oh no! Not at all! I am happy to do this for both of you.

Why did he pick you to send the message? she asked (I had transcribed a message from him about three months ago.)
Her husband said that when I spoke with his former boss about his death--the boss was very supportive and present at the hospital every day--he felt the boss and my kindness.He knew I would make a message for what he wanted to say, not what I THOUGHT he wanted to say. And besides, she sticks out like a sore thumb up here!

When she found out he will be waiting for her to help her cross over, she wanted to know how long she has to wait to be with him again. This is a natural and healthy question. Fortunately for me, her husband laughed and said where he is there is no time! And when her lessons and assignment is complete, he will come for her. In the meantime, he wants her to enjoy life for both of them. He was very practical--he said you live in a beautiful part of the world, with housing and food plentiful. It is a blessing so why not enjoy it? (they were refugees from Viet Nam, or 'boat people', and had experienced hardship.)

The Tears Of Joy At The Reconnection:
This part of mediumship is difficult. Once the client feels that this IS in fact their loved one, tears naturally flow. It is beautiful and wonderful to feel the emotions of both the deceased and the client. This was a beautiful relationship to witness, and I was happy to know that the peace and comfort that was going back and forth between them was healing on such a deep level for them both. And their mother in law! But at some point it has to end. I always like to close the session as gently as can be done. It's not forever, the joyful reconnection. And at some point, I have to stop and go on to the next thing. It is entirely natural for the client to want it to go on forever. This is the part of living behind the veil I find most painful to experience, both in myself and in others.

Mediumship is a very powerful tool in healing. It helps us to recall both the pleasures and the pain with our loved ones. And forgiveness which has not taken place is always one of the biggest benefits of having a session. There are questions answered, and an opportunity for love to heal whatever might have not yet been settled between them.

Father passed five years ago today. The angels took him--he went with them willingly--at about eight p.m. at his home, surrounded by his loved ones.

I was there for his last breath.

We benefitted very much from two mediumship sessions (I actually went to three, the first one he was too shy. Between us there was one issue to resolve.) shortly after his death.

Last night I saw him for the first time, right when I was falling asleep. I saw his face, just as clear as ever. It gave me great comfort to look in his eyes once more. He started talking to me, and all I remember is 'all is forgiven between us?' I said 'yes, absolutely!' and I conked out.

He had the pulmonary fibrosis. He couldn't get enough oxygen to his tissues. At the end he got so winded he couldn't even brush his teeth without having to stop and catch his breath. Mom ended up doing it for him. He was always very careful with taking good care of his teeth. He had a beautiful smile.

I am so glad I saw it once again last night!

Happy Birthday in Heaven, Daddy. 
I love you very much.

Aloha and mahalos,

Reiki Doc

P.S. Learning Reiki really opens one up to the psychic gifts. Mediumship is one of them. So if you would like to be able to do what I just did, even if you never in your life are interested to heal others with Reiki, taking Reiki one or two is enough to 'boost' your ability to 'connect' through mediumship, clairvoyance, clairaudience, and clairsentience/claircognizance too.


  1. I loved hearing your story about mediumship - I also channel Spirit on occasion but usually only during Reiki sessions.I took psychic training and mediumship training also. But I totally disagree with what you said about becoming Reiki can make you a medium or a psychic. If you do not have these gifts before you become Reiki, Reiki will not make you have them. Reiki does enhance any gifts/talents you have but does give you any of them that you don't already have. This is common knowledge among all Reiki Practitioners. Giving this kind of false information out to the public about Reiki can cause the public to shy away from Reiki. The already think we are way to "woo woo".

    1. Hello dear Heart-Light-Reiki,
      We are all born fully capable to exist in the Higher Realms. Telepathy and healing are natural birth rights for all sovereign Galactic Citizens.
      When we incarnate on Earth, we are subject to the restrictions and illusions which some describe as 'The Veil'.
      All beings incarnate on Gaia, upon learning Reiki, raise their Vibration.
      All beings.
      Human natives from Gaia.
      Those from Orion.
      And those from points distant.
      You are entirely correct when you say 'Reiki does enhance any gifts or talents you have'.
      Everyone indeed HAS these gifts, but how deeply involved and covered they are in the Illusion, is a matter of chance!
      So some will and others won't experience their Reiki guides directly--within Reiki itself.
      By the time one makes Karuna Reiki, especially Karuna Reiki like me, there is no further need for this discussion.
      Try Karuna.
      It will do everyone some good : )))

  2. Your post brought back a very strong desire to "step out" and ask YOU a question. Ready, . . .I was practicing Reiki 1 at the time that my daughter was called out on her first volunteer fireman's call as a "ride along" (she is now a full volunteer) at an accident which involved a motorcycle and car. It turned out that the man on the motorcycle was a fellow classmate in her volunteer fireman "class" and friend. He was taken to the hospital and within 24/36 hours, (I'm not sure of the timeline) died. When she unexpectedly came to see me, as she lived outside of our home, I immediately saw her face with pain. I took her into my room, found out what happened and asked if I could do Reiki on her to help. Now I have to say that she was recently in an auto. accident, where she was a passenger and sustained minor injuries which at that time, I wasn't aware she had an injury to her sternum. I felt the need to move my hands between her breasts and just leave them there for several moments. I would NEVER put my hands on her chest in any normal circumstance, but at that time, it was such an intense "need" that I followed through. Going forward, . .after a good cry and much love shared between us, she told me about her injury and "previous" pain in her chest area. She leaves to go home and I go to take a shower. In the shower, I was meditating on my daughter and her experience and thinking and praying for the young man who was just involved in a terrible accident and I knew was in intensive care. I came out of the shower and in my bedroom in BROAD DAYLIGHT, I stopped before getting dressed and raised my hands above my shoulders and (this is where I'm glad my door was closed) with shaking hands, starting with the "imaginary head" sending I "guess" some sort of healing/"passing on" energy to a soul which I instinctively knew was this young man, whom I had never met. My hands went up and down his "body" as if he were there in physical form. Can I say, that I've only told my husband, daughter and Reiki Master about this experience as anyone else would think I was "possessed or nuts". If I were a fly on the wall watching what happened in my bedroom, I would have to agree that what I was doing was SO out of character for me, . . yet,. . I was aware of what was happening, but not able to stop, . . as if I was led. It was much like the many experiences I have had with the "Holy Spirit" in the Charismatic Movement in the Catholic Church years ago. You know what is happening but you can't do anything about it, . . and you don't want to. Make sense? Was I helping this young man pass on to the light? Were my Guides using my healing gifts (which I do believe I have) to help physically, emotionally, spiritually? My Reiki Master, honestly didn't know what to say to me. Please give me your input as I honor and respect you as a healer, older soul and Master (in progress) as we all aspire to be in our future (s). Much love to you. Namaste

    1. Dear Kimberlie,
      This soul trusted YOU. In life, it knew YOU.
      Fresh souls who have recently departed do not always accept and trust the assistance of the angelic guides who are more 'proper' with robes and wings.
      Sometimes they prefer the Earth Angels like yourself who wear the wings 'inside'.
      You assisted him in his Transition to the Higher Realms and did a great service to the Light.
      It was real and the fact that this took place out of the shower with you sky clad is not a coincidence. Spirit contacts us in the shower -- the water helps the communication come to us--and our Light Work is actually strongest when we are without clothes (for some reason! I don't understand.).
      It's just part of the job, Kimberlie.
      You did Light Work with your open heart, and didn't question it while it was being done.
      You rose to the occasion.
      Thank you.
      I hope this answers your question?