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I'm beyond sleepy--LOL--vacation is over!
The most important part of the day, was how I realized the following and Ross gave me a big kiss when I figured it out:
- Due to Free Will, we have the right to tell any spirit, especially a dark one--to Go AWAY! and it has to. It's the rules. We have Free Will, and it is honored. (we are incarnate, the spirit is not)
- Many a Lightworker has been frustrated--because things are not changing here. The suffering, the killing, the same old crap...does not seem to budge. Part of this is because I understand that the news is controlled by Those Who Do Not Have Our Best Interest At Heart, and they're not talking anything outside their 'party line', even IF change is happening.
- For the dark souls who are incarnate--one way or another--through being a parasitic attachment or being incarnate and making 'bad choices'--it's not straightforward because it is like a 'loophole' in the Free Will system. It must be honored. So it's like turned around. The disincarnate and incarnate 'good choices' souls want the 'bad choices' souls to shape up or ship out--but they are dragging their feet. Apparently, rules are rules....this explains a lot.
- The last part is, while we are at it, we might as well just LOVE everything and everybody. Why? It strengthens the collective consciousness. And it is like poison to Those Who Do Not Have Our Best Interest At Heart. So peace, calm, tranquility, trust, faith, and all those 'warm fuzzier' are like throwing tiny droplets of water in a fine mist at the Wicked Witch of the West in the Wizard of Oz. It's not so good for the Witch...and although it's not quite the bucket full of water Dorothy threw, every little bit helps!
My dear friend just got married last week. I stopped by to see her and her new husband. They bickered in front of me. He got REALLY upset over something that involved her brother.
They apologized to me in the end when I went to go. And I said, calmly, 'I don't mind it at all. If I am ever lucky enough to have another husband, now I will know what husbands do. They YELL!' I smiled.
Part of the relationship with Ross that infuriates me, is he'll never argue. He doesn't yell. He doesn't get mad--only miffed. And his feelings will get hurt--he'll let me know it. But to be honest, I don't know what issues he is going to take a stand on and get all worked up. I have no stinking clue!
And I wish I did. I wish we had 'that sore spot' in our relationship which helps us know who cares about what, and how much.
It's never going to happen.
I'm going to turn into someone like he is now, at some point. And 'miffed' is going to be just about as emotional as I'm going to get. I'm going to be always tactful and polite.
I miss it. I miss having 'his interests' and 'my interests' and being able to compromise on how to spend our free time together.
SO--the bottom line is--if you are in a relationship, enjoy it. Every little bit of it. Even the not so smooth parts. It really is a blessing.
For me it's just my own choice to get mad or not. And it isn't really much fun at all because he doesn't react. And he doesn't take me too seriously when I do get mad. He knows just what to say, at the right time, and it's almost like a parent.
I hope the disincarnate ones pay attention.
Sometimes arguing is fun. Sometimes so is joking around, playing a practical joke on someone you love. It's not that I recommend it or anything. My point is that with Ross it's like being with someone who always wins the argument 24/7. After a while, I don't even want to try to make my point. It's too much energy, and it's not worth it.
What's going on is I, the incarnate one, have the emotional body that's hyper-whatever. And a typical disincarnate one doesn't have this touchy emotional body. I don't know if it makes life seem 'flat' or not. Everything Ross says is that it's absolutely wonderful 'out there' wherever he is. And yet, the Galactics watch us with such interest! Whether or not we are the 'reality show' they sure have their focus upon us. Eventually we will understand. I just hope I'm not Honey Boo Boo or the equivalent to them, you know? LOL
By the way, all the mail was delivered today after vacation. There was a ton of ads, a whole lot of bills, some catalogs, one wedding invitation (or shower I didn't open it), and one letter from my mom.
No wonder why I get stressed and need vacation. This stuff piles up SO fast! And the ratio of unwelcome and unwanted mail far outweighs the pleasant stuff! I look forward to a slower pace of life at some point. I will LOVE my way to my respite!!
Until then, it's more long days at work, and a lot of hard work.
(Ross says he doesn't want to write. He is going to think up some arguments. I just love him so much. I think he understands my wanting him to be a little more colorful, and is honoring my request! What a sweetheart! I can't wait to see what he comes up with next!)
Aloha and Mahalos,