My Council called me in yesterday. They invited me to share an entirely new concept with you, one regarding relationships in the Higher Realms. They call it 'Polycommitment'.
Up until this time, I had been taught that 'monogamy is a can but not a must' in the higher realms.
If you have read this blog for some time, you would know that 'it's complicated' is a good way to describe my current soul relationships. Ross and I are partners and soul twins...then after that it gets a little different from what we have here on Earth today.
The other day I read a post by George Takei on FB about a gay threople (a three-way couple). I couldn't find the link, but while searching there was apparently articles in Cosmopolitan and other online sources about two woman and a man in a relationship and other permutations of 'polyamory'
I was horrified. Not due to the people discussed. I was horrified because of the agenda being pushed towards something I'd never anticipated here in our popular culture.
I actually used to make fun of the Galactics for being 'promiscuous' in my eyes, as they are a little 'lax' in the monogamy department. Then I learned that I am in committed relationships with not one but FIVE souls! At the same time. And the ones besides Ross, two were before him, and two were after him. I am in a formal commitment, and it's almost like an apprenticeship. These souls I am with who are not Ross are teaching me something important for my soul's duties wherever the soul as Carla goes.
(As an aside, I am realizing that souls can be in many places at once, this is the nature of the soul, and many incarnations are going on at the same time, under the direction of the Higher Self--which I still don't fully understand. To be honest the concept is a little too close to comfort for the multiple personalities created in MK Ultra/Monarch for these poor victims who are incarnate. I need to talk with Ross and my guides more to see how one is good and the other isn't. Just like with bigamy not being legal in most countries and yet apparently the 'new cool thing' are three way couples).
The other thing I am reading is by Covenant Eyes, on Internet Safety for children. Yes, it is Christian. But also, it's correct in some things, especially in the description of the brain's reward system, how the brain truly is wired for sex, and how Creator wishes for us to share our sexual selves with someone important to us in real life. They describe how the cycle of pornography affects developing boys and girls, how easy it is for them to have access to it, and now for many young people seeing a real human partner who doesn't compare favorably to the porn actors on the screen, describe the real partner as 'just bad porn'.
What the Internet Safety guide tells us is that we have independence, our own dignity, and right to pleasure/intimacy in the right context, but in the wrong context (such as porn addiction where you give your love to an image on a screen or modern-day agenda items) it can lead to pain and sexual shame. So protect the children by teaching them to respect themselves, and to be always thinking critically about what media they consume. And for parents to share what the kids consume and to ask questions to guide the critical thinking process. That way the children aren't sheltered, but rather, prepared for today's world.
So, what about the Galactics?
Their point is that for angelic beings, and beings of Higher Vibration, in all interactions there is the goal to be on the up and up. And instead of finding multiple partners for gratification, the galactics get to know one another deeper on a more personal level, putting the welfare of the partner before their own in any intimate relationships. So, instead of the low vibration seeking of 'physical pleasure' between as many partners as possible, there is the connection, soul to soul, which is of value the most. And THIS is what leads to friendship and commitment to anyone in which there is closeness on various levels. There is mutual respect and trust, and I sense that it's not only 'lip service' as the polyamorist claim to promote, but also, genuine joy and understanding of the way things work in the higher realms.
I was grateful because I had the impression that 'up there' was as 'anything goes' as on Earth, but like, on steroids--stronger and more prominent. I was afraid perhaps someone might get 'romantic' and pressure me or even use force on a street corner! And in my heart of hearts, I kind of didn't want to go. I didn't want to be exposed to it. I didn't want to participate in it. It was too much for my brain to handle and I only want Ross, you know?
Another huge huge huge thing came through yesterday from my past life, my immediate one, as a kitten. I was a child prostitute, basically, and my face looked like a kitten so I must have been an MK Ultra/Monarch 'product'. I died around nine or ten, someone strangled me during sex, and as I floated out of the body I saw it and thought, 'what a stupid excuse for a life that was!'...Well the huge thing was that I realized yesterday that I didn't like being forced to have sex with women in that incarnation. I felt it strongly. Why, I don't know. I know I had sex with just about everything but other children in that life. My point is, for you to honor your strong feelings you don't know why you have based on this incarnation. It could be from a past life. And that past life has to heal. I wouldn't dwell on it or force it. Just be aware and understand what is happening if it does come up. Be kind and loving to your past self in order to help it heal. What works for other people is perfectly fine for them. Do not pressure yourself to make it some form of comparison for you.
My guides/Council say this has been just enough to 'get you thinking outside the box' and to know that no matter how things turn out once we 'awaken' everything is in perfect Divine Order, and is meant to be just as it arrives.
Our countdown is 87 days, and Ross waves hello.
He wasn't participating in the above discussion because it's a sore spot between us. When we were both incarnate, he was a little more 'Galactic' than me. And it caused me great suffering and pain, to the point of my trying to disconnect myself from him as my Twin, which is impossible, but I came very close to being successful at it. It's a long story how my HS went one way and my soul another, in a switch--over both of us there's an even Higher Self that was keeping everything under control, and now with Ross and I together again, it's all good. He and I are monogamous to one another, and we keep it that way, because I don't like to think about how other things are. When I encounter the other souls, they feel like family, not romantic, and I know they care for me a lot. This is because I can't handle anything more.
So I'm so grateful to Ross for not forcing me to be a certain way that I'm not at the moment with my current level of development.
Ross does want you to know that it's all for good, that everything will work out, and not to feel like you have 'too many questions'. You are free to ask him and your guides in meditation, and even if you don't wish to discuss these things, everything will make sense because you won't have the veil on any more once we Ascend.
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Aloha and Mahalos,
Namaste,
Peace,
Ross and Carla
The Couple
