My Ex-Boyfriend's Half-Sister's Brother

Growing up in Southern California, bringing up someone in conversation with the girls was as easy as rattling off 'My Ex-Boyfriend's Half-Sister's Brother'.

As a matter of fact, my father's mother (the paternal grandmother) noticed my sharp memory, and decided to make me the family historian. On every visit, out came the photo albums, with quizzing me by pointing to the many faces and asking how they were related to us.

I actually know the difference between a first cousin once removed (your cousin's kid) and second cousins (both of the children from two cousins--my cousin's kid and my kid). I understand the difference between a great Aunt and a great Grandmother. We were not doing formal geneaology--it was just a family role that was passed down to me.

Does any of this sound natural? Can you imagine deer talking like this? I know they have their way of knowing who is with whom, and at mating season the bucks make a big to do about it, but after that, they are all one big herd, together for survival, are they not?

In some indigenous Native cultures, such as the Maori in the movie, The Whale Rider, the tribe is Patriarch- oriented. (And the girl in the movie, the hero, challenged that).

This photo is of a beautiful Inuit family from the Pacific Northwest.

In other cultures, such as Latin culture, the lineage is determined through the Matriarch, in the last names. (Although in modern society here and most likely in other Latin countries, legal Patriarchy prevails).

There is an incredible book titled The Shadow King: The Invisible Force That Holds Women Back that is written by Sidra Stone http://voicedialogueinternational.com/index-Sidra_Stone.htm)

This explains this 'hidden' Archtype that perpetuates masculine dominance in the structure of our society.

The author does deep work to discover this very much alive shadow persona deep within her clients, this inherent belief system that is keeping women back because deep down they think they are inferior to men, even some of the most successful ones in business. There is this little voice deep inside that says, 'women aren't good at this'. So to honor the Shadow King, the women unconsciously hold back. And the men have the Shadow King in their subconscious too.

The cruelest example I have ever heard, is of a husband who was once married to a wife who has muscular dystrophy, introducing her to others socially as 'One Of Jerry's Kids' (Jerry Lewis is a well-known spokesperson celebrity and fundraiser for muscular dystrophy in the states.)

He is making it clear that she is beneath both him and the person he is introducing her to, right from the start.

Thank God she was able to finally leave him, and start over. This is about as far from the Divine Feminine that a person can get, this type of cruel, twisted thinking.

Bathwater by No Doubt

http://youtu.be/ee3nUSyxdBE

(please excuse the tee shirt on the right--this is the only one with lyrics in the video that was not karaoke)

So what can we do about the Silent King, and the resulting imbalance between the Divine Masculine and the Divine Feminine?

We can make ourselves aware of it, and educate ourselves to look for it in our day-to-day experiences.

Why not, next time, introduce your ex-boyfriend's half-sister's brother by their first name only?

Does it really matter how we are 'connected' to each other, when we are all cousins and aunties and uncles in the Ohana that is here on earth, together, as children of Gaia?

Today's long story short is this:
In your own interpersonal relationships, what is it you wish to focus upon? The energy of Separation? Or the energy of Oneness? 

It's your call.

And each day you wake up--it's a clean slate. So as you go through your day, have that little voice on your shoulder ask, 'How's that working today? You like it? Are you comfortable with it?'

Then take it from there.

It's always time for Stirring The Pot--about something or another--at Doctors With Reiki, isn't it? Enjoy your new perspective and trying it on for size to see what 'fits' and what doesn't, okay?

With so very much love,


Aloha and Mahalos,
Namaste,
Peace,

Reiki Doc

P.S. Is this synchronicity? It might be! You decide--http://sirianheaven.wordpress.com/2014/04/09/heavenletter-4884-the-truest-dream-of-all-april-9-2014/

My Kind Of Bacon

Choose the life that is most useful, and habit will make it the most agreeable. -- Francis Bacon*

This morning I was reflecting on Ross. My heart opened all the way up, and I realized how there is so little time left of my Essence to LOVE him. I'm not getting any younger, nor are any of us. And although I have been waiting for the time to be in the same dimension, is there no reason why I can't celebrate our connection we have now?

And I did.

I hugged and kissed his picture (yes, I have one!) and thanked God for our being 'together' again.

Then something caught my eye--my brand-new deck of Mary Queen Of Angels Oracle Cards by Doreen Virtue. I hadn't even opened them yet.

I did.

Whenever I do any kind of 'card' Spirit always tells me which one to pick. Today, I heard Her say loud and clear, 'the second from the back'.

It was Truth.

She has been telling me the truth about Ross and our relationship ever since I started talking with her in 1990...but it has been ME who was unable to comprehend it.

And She is my Mother, my Spiritual Mother, in every way!

Her point is that she wanted to make sure I didn't think she was untruthful to me. She had to be cautious as to how much I could accept and still function in my daily life...in my studies, in my residency, in my teaching (yes, I was a professor of anesthesia), and in my home. I have a lot of responsibilities!

And how can you explain that your husband exists and is watching you and loving you but is on The Other Side and is kind and gentle and loving and smart and will fight for you and is the most beautiful soul you have ever met?

You can't!

So here we are with today's Heavenletter which is along the same lines of 'discovering the Truth of Who You Are'--here is the  link: http://sirianheaven.wordpress.com/2014/01/19/heavenletter-4804-the-truth-and-the-depth-of-you-january-19-2014/

Here it is 'cut and pasted' or 'reblogged':

Heavenletter #4804 The Truth and the Depth of You, January 19, 2014

God said:

From where does light come from? Your eyes are sparkling. It must be that light comes from within you. Of course, it does, for am I not within you?

We can go a step further. There is no outside you. There is nothing but consciousness. Even the world that you see, the wayward world you may see, is within you who are the perceiver of it. The world echoes something within you. You see what you are made of. Right now you are a mix of all possibilities.

You are aware of Me. You are aware of Me big time. You are aware of your True Identity at the same time as you identify with less. You are also aware of matters to worry about or to fear. The outside is innocent, beloveds. It mirrors something within yourself you are to take a look at, to see, to grasp and graduate from. You are not blind to the errors of the world, nor are you blind to Me.

And, yet, you have the capability to see differently from how you see now. You are neither hopeless, nor are you helpless. You are the prime motivator of your life because I AM. Whatever I AM, ARE you also.

Your eyes can see further than they see now.

I, God, love the world. What is it that the Great Spiritual Ones have done but love the world? They surpassed their individuality, and this is what you are doing. This is the height you climb as well.

Here I say that all is inside you, and I say you are to step out of your individuality. Your perception is your reality. There is a level beyond perception where you see Reality just as you may see a shining sea. The closer you are to Me, the better you see what is Real, and the less you see what is not.

There are façades in the world, and you also have made façades of yourself, and these façades are less than the Truth of you. I am the Truth of you. All the power that lies within Me lies within you. The Omnipresence, the Omniscience, and My love as well lie within you. You have yet to delve into the Truth and Depth of you.

Keep scratching the surface and you will find Me. You will find your Self. You will look within and you will look without (as if there were a without) and you will see the splendor of you, the Infinity of you, the Eternity of you, the Truth of you. You will know Oneness, and you will know Vastness, and you will know all the seeming in-between.

You will know what is worth knowing. You will roll over in joy. You will be simpler. Life will be simpler. The world will be simpler. There is nothing complicated about Oneness or Vastness. Oneness and Vastness mean the same. Oneness is Vastness. It certainly isn’t smallness.

You are swimming to Me which means you are swimming to your Self. Along the way, you are in the current of the waves, and the waves leap up, and the waves sweep themselves away. As you swim, you are like waves of the Ocean in the process of reaching your Self.

There are no little fish in this Ocean of which I speak. You are part of the force of the tide. You are impelled to find Me and come to Me even as you have always been with Me. You seek for your Self. Seek and you will find where you already are, but, now, your eyes extend all the way to your heart. Hello!

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It is important that we talk of such things.

Do what you love.
I do.

Connect to Source.
It's already there, actually, all you have to do is open yourself to it.

Listen with your Heart.
This one takes Practice!!!

And Love.
Love as best you can, everyone and everything...

For according to this Heavenletter,
All of it is YOU.


Aloha and Mahalos,
Namaste,

Reiki Doc

* -- legend has it that Sir Francis Bacon was the reincarnation of St. Germain. <3

Finding Your Way in the Fifth Dimension

Hello. How are you doing? No matter what, I am here with you while the Higher Energies make the changes in the Portals, and the Grids, and you. Just like in the practice of anesthesia, I, like my dedicated co-workers, are trained to accompany you and take care of you through the changes that the surgeon makes while the operation is taking place on your body. I don't leave. I have been taught what to do in almost any situation. Although I give Reiki in my practice, and that is a little different, vigilance  is first and foremost always on my mind whenever I am working with you.

There are a lot of disturbing messages out there, and I want to talk about them to you, and reassure you not to worry.

• KP just put out a nihilistic post that touched me deeply. 'All we have is this moment Now' and 'everything else is history'. 
• Lucas is 'moving on' and talking about 'Love' in the same breath.
• Sheldan Nidle is giving  a Play-By-Play about the new Government (I put it up on Facebook, but didn't make a big to do about it--it's Happy, and not bad to me.)

All that this means is that there are a lot of individuals out there, and some of them can have messages that are influenced by a number of outside energetic vibrations, as well as the perceptions they have accrued from many lifetimes.  We are entering a phase where all channellings and other 'messages' online, as well as the standard 'news' and 'alternative news sources', has to be taken with a grain of salt. This is totally expected, and just as a mom's labor changed from stage 1 (cervical dilation) to stage 2 (baby navigating the birth canal) and I tell them that the new discomfort low and in the front is a 'sign of graduating to the next part of labor' as I work to make them comfortable: these messages that are mixed are a sign that progress is being made and we are moving ahead with the transition.

My responsibility to you is to stay with you and remind you that you are waking up. and to share with you my experiences from my own awakening so you can know what is happening too.

• Last night I dreamed I was taken out of my body! I was in the middle of doing some normal thing, and I went 'whoosh!' up and out of my body. I was flying here and there and very excited to cover great distances. I didn't have a plane. It was the energy of this dream that made it feel 'different'. Sometimes now when I meditate and connect to Source (after 12.21.12) I get a stronger 'connection'. It feels great and I enjoy it. The dream was like that.
• People are going to wake up at their own rate. Some will not 'wake up' at all. Not everyone is following the blogs like you. I keep a picture of popcorn popping in my head when I think about Ascension--I am one of the first kernels, and when your internal moisture hits the right temperature as we sizzle in the pan, your water will expand into steam and you will 'pop' awake too! 
• What you can do to speed this process is to concentrate on your vibration, consciously making choices that will avoid lowering your vibration, and will instead raise it. 
• Think of me as your 'guide' in this process. You are doing the work. I am your Personal Trainer in Spirit. : )
• When you 'awaken', be sure to extend your hand to guide others. When you find your True Calling, which is that 'nudging from Spirit' that won't shut up, and when you follow that guidance you will be quite happy (like me when I write this!) you will be automatically in energetic position to be of the most help possible for others who are around you.

Try to keep an open mind through the changes, and if you make a living from your Energy Work, try to be very open to whatever path Spirit has prepared for you; as people wake up, they are going to channel independently because they will have a strong connection to Source.

• Here is an example: I am a physician. I spent most of my life preparing for this work. It represents who I am (look at the 'Doc' in Reiki Doc!). 
• Medicine is changing. There are going to be major developments with Technology coming down  the pipes. 
• What will I do when others are healed? Well, if there is energy work, and I am invited to participate in the rolling out of these technologies, I would be delighted to help the field of medicine accept these new technologies.
• And if I am not to do this? I have Plan B--I love animals, and want to take care of them. (I wanted to be a veterinarian first, or a zookeeper, or a ranger, but I have allergies. These allergies should go away in the Higher Dimensions)
• So for you, try to sort out what Spirit is calling you to do, even if you have a career in it, and ask yourself from time to time 'what is it I would absolutely love to do if I were invited to do anything else?'

The Mayans have been through these shifts before. They say it is 'no big deal'. I agree. Just drink lots of water, spend time in Nature, do your best to help others, be kind to yourself, and take everything else with a grain of salt. Always use your Intuition, your Internal Compass, which will 'resonate' when you are on the right track and something is True.

As far as I am concerned, we are walking this path together. Hiking is always more pleasant when there is company along the trail.

Namaste,

Reiki Doc