My mom was--at times--a closet drinker. That was how she chose to cope. She was a beautiful person who had a difficult life. And--at times--she disclosed that 'alcohol was her best and only friend'.
We know it's a lie.
But people are what they are, and they have freedom to live their own lives.
Well, what about us?
Actually, I am thankful right now for mom, because this led me to Al Anon, where I was introduced to the same important lesson I am about to share with you.
You have a right to happiness even if you have an active 'drinker' in your life!
Whether you are with them, or choose to leave, starting this minute now, you can decide to claim and enjoy YOUR HAPPINESS. Your INNER PEACE. Your CALM. Your JOYFUL SOUL.
How do you do it?
It takes a lot of mental strength. But also, in a way, it requires giving yourself PERMISSION.
'Drinkers' tend to blur the boundaries, stretch the truth, and manipulate others to fill their needs and help them escape responsibility. So part of the lesson is learning what is on 'your side of the street' and to take care of that, but to also realize what is on 'THEIR side of the street' and to refuse to do that.
Why do we bring up this lesson at this time? I promised Ross a few days ago, maybe a week ago, to write it. I've been working hard, needing my rest, and taking care of my family. But today I'm here...writing to fulfill my promise to Ross.
I was just sent a sign too. My high school boyfriend, son of an even more 'classic' alcoholic mother--wrote his first blog post in two years. Something talking about the scientific terms 'hypothesis' and 'theory' and how dismissive people are when they say it's 'just a theory'. He's a PhD, but calls himself 'Dr.' and I smiled. His father was an internist and someone who inspired me, and I'm a medical doctor, and I just smile that Mona Lisa smile that everyone who has been through internship and residency smiles when people who have not go calling themselves...whatever...
My high school boyfriend also is talking about politics in that post. He leans waaaaaay left. He has no concept of the Red Pill, of Luciferianism. Nothing.
So, as an example, we can say that he is 'drinking something'--some call it Kool Ade, after a children's sugary beverage here in the states.
Ross suggests that whatever you are told is 'true', especially if it is given to you from an 'outside source' is a form of 'drinking' when it affects your belief system.
People are 'drinking' all kinds of things--news, weather, sports, entertainment, current events...anything the system is offering for you to 'ingest' and to 'become a part of you'.
So, to make a clear example, I can still be Tom's (my first boyfriend), his first girlfriend, his high school sweetheart, his friend, and ignore his belief system he wants others to share, and with full loving respect for him and his needs--go on my merry way and do whatever it is that makes me happy and content as an individual.
If you are in a family with people who 'drink the koolade', there is no reason to argue. You can't. They are 'under the influence' of psychological manipulation by people who they don't even realize are doing that, it's got them exactly where the manipulators want them to be, and you don't have to 'awaken' them. You don't. If they start to awaken and ask you a question, sure, be a resource. But not their Source. Show them how to find their own answers and encourage them to ask even more questions...
The rules of Al Anon are even more valuable now than ever, in times of this Spiritual War on the earth and humanity.
No matter what you are entitled to joy.
Remember, two of the biggest survivors of the Luciferian cult, Jessie Czebotar and Kerth Barker, on a deep level, in their own way, said, 'fuck you' and 'hell no!' to what was being 'offered' to them to 'drink' by their cult organization.
And even though they refused to drink it, they still love and respect their people inside that they knew--and in their own ways, have helped people inside who needed help. Jessie with 'overcomes' and Kerth actually counseled people who had blood drinking addiction how to make it less ruin/control their lives. (Kerth's line of counseling was especially dangerous because the client could always turn on you and drink your blood).
So keep that in mind.
And keep your mind--and soul--strong.
Ross encourages you to seek your joy and do something fun for you--clean healthy fun--every day.
So no matter what, as the news gets stranger and more bizarre daily--you are in your own oasis of Peace. You know this is all for show, it's a game, and that Home is in Heaven and it's so close it's almost like you never left it.
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Aloha and Mahalos,
Namaste,
Peace,
Ross and Carla
The couple
