Taming The Green-Eyed Monster

This is an Advanced Lesson for the Soul.

You may stop any time you feel uncomfortable with this lesson.

It is optional.

Think of it as Extra Credit.

Let's begin.

Today we are going to talk about the Elephant in the Room.

Here is a story:

My son came home from his weekend with his father. He was out of sorts.

He has been asking for a lot of things lately.

I am concerned, it seems no sooner than he gets something -- which is expensive--he wants something else.

The joy that it brings doesn't 'stick'; I am at a loss because I grew up poor, and I was very happy with the few things I got.

Others got cars on their sixteenth birthday in my neighborhood. 

I never even had my own stereo--I didn't dare to ask for it.

We were that poor.

I asked him why he never wore his watch he got from Santa?

Santa was still paying for it, $160 a month...we talk, me and Santa, and Santa would have been happy to know if the boy still enjoyed the watch as much as he did when he opened it?

(This was the last 'I Believe in Santa' holiday, as the child was growing older. He loves Christmas more than anyone I have ever met. While shopping last October for a Pandora Charm for his grandmother's birthday, as the gifts were being wrapped, he discovered Tag Hauer, and that is all he wanted. Careful thought went in to this gift. He is a very good child with a hectic and chaotic life because of my work assignments, and he never complains. But was it reasonable? I thought against it. However, direct advice from Ross made it happen. BUY THE WATCH. It is something to 'grow into' and acknowledge the child's future. For whatever reason, this is what was...and on Christmas Morning there were tears of joy, shouts, and disbelief--I KNEW Santa would get it, I KNEW it! I KNEW IT! He had actually taken it off the wish list about one week before...)

His father, and his grandmother who had gotten the jewelry as a gift herself, told the boy repeatedly ever since Christmas day, 'You shouldn't have gotten that watch for Christmas.'

(They had estimated it cost twice the amount it actually did. This one takes batteries, and was on clearance, at the store.)

Here is the message they gave the child:

• Santa was wrong.
• In their eyes, the boy didn't deserve it.

He was shattered.

I spoke candidly with the child after comforting him through his tears.

Your father and grandmother LOVE you.

They are having trouble with their 'Lesson': how to be happy for someone who has more than you.

It is one of the most difficult lessons to learn.

Please forgive them.

They love you the best they can.

Both Ross AND Santa decided together that you deserve it.

Would you like to wear your watch again?

(it is kept in a safe place). I got it out, and he wore it for the next three days straight, full of joy--never at school--but on Mother's Day outing and around the house.

It starts early.

It is said that when a sibling comes home, it creates the same emotions in the older sister or brother that it would in the wife if the husband came home with another woman and said, 'This is how it's going to be forever now, and I love both of you the same in my heart! We are one big happy family!'

Children are not stupid.

They know resources of time and money are limited.

Perhaps they have to share a room. Perhaps mommy is a little cranky and tired. Perhaps the crying baby ruins their sleep at night. Perhaps the little one pushes the older one out of the mother's lap, literally (this one happened to me, and my mother did nothing to stop it.)

I survived one of the worse cases of sibling rivalry that has been on the planet.

I felt like this for all but three years of my life--but the last ten, I have decided in my heart to rise above it, and not 'feed' the emotions that come up when they surface from my soul, ego, heart, whatever. I decide I do not wish to be like that and I keep my energy up and change the channel to lovingkindness to myself, my sister, and my mom.

If this rings true for you, take heart.

Love Is The Solution For Everything...

And there is plenty of love on this page here for you...

I had this problem when it comes to having children and relationships.  I was always on the outside looking in. In the delivery room, with my anesthesia, witnessing this joy was unavoidable; it was like a knife slashed through my heart!

How could this be?

Then, one day, I woke up.

I said, 'Just because I can't have a baby/am single/have fertility problems doesn't mean I can't be happy for someone else who is having one when I am not. Why not share their joy instead of make it a little less for everyone with my feelings? I don't want to be that kind of person, forever, and there are plenty of children I can love in whatever way God has planned for me.'

I was pregnant the next month.

It wasn't easy.

I was single the whole time, and I still am.

I had my miracle.

I am very happy.

Sometimes I ache because I wished I had more.

It's not going to happen. 

But I just got a text from one of my Reiki students at work--

Thank you for the Mother's Day card to a Mother-To-Be you stuck in my locker. I was so surprised and happy that I cried. I am that hormonal! You are an ANGEL! Thank you for thinking of me

I learned my lesson well.

There is no jealousy or envy in 5D.

This is because Love Is The Solution For Everything.

And the Vibration of 5D is incompatible with those lower vibration emotions.

This is extra credit.

You will have as long as you wish to complete this lesson.

It is optional.

There is no grade.

You will know in your heart when you have passed the lesson.

Love Is The Solution For Everything.

The rest is up to you.






Aloha and Mahalos,
Namaste,
Peace,

Reiki Doc

A New Prosperity: Spiritual Bactine

My friends, and indeed you are...I am going to sound like a heretic. There is a currency of exchange I think about. I call it Heaven Dollars. At my work, I have an opportunity to serve others. It is a nice place. I have access to nice equipment. The coworkers are pleasant. Because my intent is on doing good, and enjoying the chance to be with others as a helper in time of need, my heart is overflowing with abundance! I am one of the luckiest people in life, because I get to do my childhood dream for a living!

What is your dream? What is your calling? Let me let you in on a secret: every night before I go to sleep, I review my mental chalkboard of the day. And in my mind, I erase it with a mental eraser in my hand. And when I wake up in the morning, it is a new day! The chalkboard is clean!

So, now we are going to talk about the concept of manifestation. Manifestation is the ability to create a dream come true. For example, the actress who came from Podunk, knowing all her life she would be a star, and never lost hope against countless struggles. And made it big!

Do you hate her? Are you jealous? Be true to yourself on this. Are you jealous of someone that has a new Mercedes and is enjoying themselves? Are you upset that the rich get richer? Are you frustrated and worn out from all your trying to make ends meet? Let me ask you, why on earth are you doing that to yourself? You don't have to suffer! There is enough everywhere for all!

It all has to do with the ability to Manifest. What is on your mind today will become your reality tomorrow. And if you anticipate what you wish as being just around the corner, really believe it is so, it will arrive. If it is for the highest good. Thoughts of love, and light, and helping people snowball! Doing what your heart of hearts wants to do, in the moment, as well as toward a goal, is your path to follow.

A sense of entitlement does not make sense, for with this you siphon of the energy of someone's dream. This is not how the universe works. It is not the healthiest choice you can be making. How much healthier it is, psychologically, to live your own dream! You can ask for help. I do. All the time. I say 'I have a problem with my plumbing and I don't know what to do. Dad (my father is deceased) I need your help! Show me what to do, where to go from here!" there is always an answer, sometimes not instantaneously, but prompt enough to be on time.

You have a purpose and a job to do while you're alive. And when you do it you will feel joy you cannot imagine! The reciprocation of gratitude is a win-win! Heaven dollars is the pay, and yes you CAN take it with you.

Earthly dollars are all messed up. And that is going to change this year. Debts and oppression will be released to make it fair for everyone. It will be a new start. Try to generate wealth and abundance in Heaven Dollars first, and the earth ones that pay the rent will follow. I guarantee it! Simply take the money out of the picture and ask the Universe to supply for your needs in your work. It may be a surprise check, or a meal out, or a gift of clothing. The Universe has lots more ways to get something to you in time than using the conventional method. Give the Universe a chance. Give thanks in advance! It will surprise you by your ability tomanifest when you truly believe. (In the past month, I manifested a visor (my cousin gave it), parking spots, cases at work, certain foods, and friends contacting me out of the blue. All I had to do was think of it, step back,and wait for it to show up.)

The world is really smiling! Gaia is feeling great. Won't you drop the past and join the celebration?

Lots of light and namaste,

Reiki Doc

Love, anger and hate--how Sports fits into Spiritualty

Think about it. At the game, your team is winning. Hurrah! Hurrah! You are elated. The other team is catching up. You love to hate that team, you love it! You love it! You are the fan : )

You buy everything, even your checks have a common theme in place. Your team...it gives conversation, companionship, something to do, something to bond with...it's fun. Not to mention a great excuse for drinking, gambling, and relaxing too.

What is this? What is this, I ask you? What is competition? Is it trying to do your best? The players do all the work. Do you take care of your body? And play a sport for your health?

Who does it benefit? The razor manufacturers, the beer companies, the auto industry? The NFL, the NBA and major league baseball?

Society conditions us at a young age with sports and recreation. And bubble gum card heroes to look up to. High school teams help mold young athletes. College sports are a big thing. And pro sports are like, Well, the Gods, are they not?

Everything has to do with your vibration, raising it, and lowering it. Sports tends to promote jealousy, anger, and hate. It goes with the territory. It lowers the vibration. It is Earthly, in the way of mankind. It is a whole way of looking at life. What was once striving to do your best becomes an obsession to an Olympic athlete. Their motive is to seek fortune and fame, is it not?

My father loved sports. He would read the paper, listen to the radio, watch the game on t.v., and talk to me while keeping every sport straight at the same time. He taught me how to throw a football, how to bat. I loved watching games with him. He never was extreme, but joining him let me see a side of him I liked so much. But when he did a sport, he brought us. Skiing. Golf. His heart was good.

What can you do to raise your vibration? Real sunshine for a bit. Salt water, either ocean or tub. Prayer. Meditation. Energy work. Nature. Animals. Exercise. Eating food choices that are good for you. Making love. Laughter. Doing something you enjoy.

How do you lower your vibration? By associating with jealousy, anger and hate. The choice is yours. Try not to get carried away with sports enough to head in that direction.

Namaste,

Reiki Doc