Ferris Buehller once advised, 'life goes by pretty fast. Sometimes you need to stop and take a look around.'
I looked around at the current state of relationships. And I think in our society, a new low was reached. People were wondering online about the sex life of the newly-married congenitally joined twins. It went on for days, there were memes. To put a stop to it the bride of the twins told the answer on X what happened to the other sister when she was 'with her husband'. (These twins share reproductive parts).
It looks like nobody is in it for the long haul any more.
Brittany Vasseur, a beautiful, helpful YouTuber has lost everything to her husband, who is leaving under non-friendly conditions. Brittany did not know the laws. By having her husband help work with her on the channel, he was entitled to it. She is starting over, and wondering if she should fight a legal battle for her rights, which will cost even more money.
I think of two very dear friends who found partners later in life, and are now single.
If you watch online you will see a plethora of help about narcissistic personalities and how to survive their abuse.
Many women my age--some I work with--are leaving men who are drunks, or just plain selfish. They are thrilled to have their freedom and be alone.
The war being waged against the Divine Feminine is harsh and brutal. The Divine Feminine appears to be diminished to terms like 'my kid's mom' or 'baby mama'. I am even one of those, and was once told I was nothing more than an incubator. Yes, by the father and grandmother of my son!
I had wanted to heal my attachment wounds. My mother was not a good person for attachment, and it left me disorganized (afraid of my caregiver). The men I have been with were all abused and took it out on me because I was nice.
My close friendship with someone I once knew in college and reconnected, over the past three years, taught me so much. I was blind to the stonewalling, gaslighting, lying, dismissal, and neglect of my most basic needs in friendship. Suddenly now I can see the pattern. Furthermore, like my second husband, this person is walking around acting like 'everything is cool' after having survived horrible abuse. 'I healed' my second husband had said when I asked him before marriage. But in our marriage a total monster came out and tormented me.
As I was exploring how to attract my college friend--online resources for 'Scorpio Men'--this was all on my own he had no interest in me other than a good friend--it was shocking. Absolutely shocking the things women are expected to do in the bedroom in order to keep their men! No longer is it enough to enjoy pleasure openly! They need to study lines and say them in certain ways to encourage the men to penetrate them in every possible way! Lessons on how to be like a porno dialogue!
I do not think this was in the Divine Plan by Creator.
When S and G was at its worst grown men could not walk freely at night because crowds were out in the streets wanting to rape them. People would yell up to the houses to let the guest out so they could have sex with them. The host said, 'I will offer you my daughter but not my guest' and they persisted in wanting the guest!
The weapons that are being used against us are working--mind control, pornography, Fear of Missing Out, I know what it is but I won't say it (sex symbols in the public eye are not what they may seem, is that fair?), the unwillingness to support a family, the lying, the cheating which is rampant, the emotional affairs--these weapons and battle plan are being carried out with precision and nobody seems to care!
I am grateful to be able to learn, grow, and see patterns in these difficult times.
Have patience! Have hope! Have gratitude if you are with a rare pairing with a good partner and friend.
So many are destined now to die alone!
It is tragic.
Stay close to Creator.
There is no time better than now to get things right with the Lord.
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Aloha and Mahalos,
Namaste,
Peace,
Ross and Carla
The Twin Flames
P.S.
Ross: Carla was lonely. She asked me for someone to talk about her day and theirs. And so I sent it. In the beginning when Carla's old college roommate's boyfriend showed an interest in reconnecting with Carla, she wanted to go to Toronto and give everything up and take care of him. Divine Father sternly told Carla 'no!' which Carla of certainly obeyed.
The last time Divine Father said such a 'no!' was when Carla wanted to give everything up and become a nun, out of frustration in not being able to find a partner and friend. Later Carla became a single mother, which would not have been possible in the convent, and also Carla learned about Sister Charlotte and what goes on under the guise of the 'church'.
Now Carla understands that the reason her roommate turned 'mean' or 'sour' and got involved in the cult, C 'Summit' was because the boyfriend was stonewalling, gaslighting, lying, and dismissing her needs.
The pattern is complete! The lesson is learned.
And Carla, in her wisdom, recognized the need to close her heart yet not throw out the friendship of over forty years.
This is one step closer to healing from the wounds of her early upbringing.
And many steps bringing us closer together to this time.
