Now

I got a new gift.
I'm so excited about it.
It has to do with my consciousness.

I learned a lesson today...
It was sweet.

Let me try it on for size for the first time with you in this blog--remember, I am content and lighting up like this Christmas Tree to be able to share my new gift!

I am focusing my consciousness on what I like now, on what gives me pleasure, what makes me feel loved, what makes me feel One with the Universe...just like this tree is connected through Light with all the Light of the stars in the night sky...


Remember, I am right Here, right Now:

• the crickets are one of my favorite sounds in the world.
• I am in my own home, relaxed, and not on call.
• the freeway noise makes me glad I am in my home this moment.
• I love the reminders of motherhood, angels, nature, and Love I have on the walls of my home.
• I like how my stomach is full.
• My skin feels so nice from the shower, now that the water is back on and the leak fixed.
• I love Ross so much. I love it that he is smart and I can relax a little when I am around him. He taught me this lesson. I stumbled on it, and he encouraged me to complete it.

You know how there is the old saying that 'worry is praying for what you don't want'?

We are going to turn it around.

"Ask and you shall receive" is a way of saying you have the power to co-create and manifest as a sovereign spiritual being anywhere in the cosmos!

For those of you who follow what I write, recently I have had a plumbing leak with major water damage. It took three plumbers to fix the problem. And a lot of phone calls and many friends involved.

I'm still tired from being up all night on the weekend with my work..

Sometimes I have to do things that are gross. Recently one took the cake. Don't ask me why, but I had to stick my entire hand into a patient's mouth to guide something that wasn't going in properly and kept getting hung up. The mouth was so big that I had to go all the way to my wrist to reach the back of the throat. There was blood and spit and snot all over my arm, my jacket, the linens...all sticky and red and (big sigh)--

It was a new low. 

Thankfully, the patient was unconscious, and under full anesthesia, and didn't bite.

With the stress of the work schedule--faster! faster!

I hit a point where I decided even though my body was here, and my mind was actively working, my heart wanted to be free. And in my heart of hearts, I was going to be far away in a meadow as a bunny where no one could ever eat me. And I would think of that until all this other stuff resolves, which I knew at some point it would.

I had it. Just plain had it. 

And that was the key to my discovery...where I stumbled across an important Truth.

Important Truths aren't always easy to understand because in Life there are some things you just have to experience.

I am going to share with you what I have experienced before today, that wasn't exactly helpful. 

My goal for you today is to help you not to reinvent the wheel, if you know what I mean <3

I had this crammed down my throat since I could talk. Dad once read Dale Carnegie, and he gave me a copy of Psycho Cybernetics and made me read it when I was seven. He made us say things like, 'I am somebody. I AM somebody. I am SOMEBODY! Anybody who doesn't like me must be nuts. What do I want with a bunch of nuts?' and 'Today the world belongs to ME!'

Dad, for all of his positive thinking and religious science (I went there with him too), was not very content. 

He compared himself to others. He got jealous. 

"Positive Thinking" lacks the power of the emotions of the heart.

It is one-hundred percent mind-driven. That is why it bored me to tears, and never really 'clicked'.

This is a very simple way to manifest something:  write it down.

My life was governed by date planners and schedules through all of my education and training.

It's a tool. 

The  "To Do List" often lacks the power of the emotions of the heart--even when you spend eighty percent of your time on the twenty percent of things that matter to you most.

It gets to be a habit, that your life is only what you plan, and that you can't be spontaneous because your goals are overriding the importance of what is Here and Now.

You are delaying gratification to achieve. And depending on your 'balance', it can be a good thing, or a long journey pushing a 'rock uphill'. <3

Whoever drew this TOTALLY 'gets' what it is like to be 5D <3

Sometimes when people ask me for spiritual advice, I say to this:

Take all that energy you have going on between your ears, inside your head, and drop it about twelve inches lower.

Your heart connects to all the knowledge of the Universe, your Higher Self, your Twin, your Soul Mate, your beloved friends...and these connections last forever as etheric cords between your heart and theirs.

You can feel it.

What is in your thoughts?

Is there a struggle, for example, as in addiction?

It there chatter? Is your mind on overload 24/7 and you can't sleep?

Are you looking for someone to make something happen for you? To 'save you' in some way or another--a 'sugar daddy or mama'? a big 'lottery win', First contact and mass landings, a religious 'someone' to come back for His 'second coming'???

You have Reiki and the power to heal across distance and time...using Universal Energy. You can feel it. You can see electronic things go haywire. You can see the healing that happens in others who ask for you to send healing their way, or to treat them with your Reiki directly face to face.

You have a spiritual community at Doctors With Reiki on Facebook and Twitter. This 'home' is built with nurturing, warmth, love and compassion. These are the same building blocks of which Heaven is constructed...everyone is welcome and the healing is free of charge every day. <3

Your soul is waiting to do its thing, and blossom under the Creator's shining heart.

You have your own connection to Creator.

It's your birth right.

In those quiet moments, you ARE 'Home' with the love that fills everything that exists.

The whole world is alive with Love, unconditional Love, the energy that is Creation itself.

Open your heart to it.

Ponder it.

Give thanks for it.

Look at every blessing as if it is brand new and you never noticed it before...

You are Forever.

And Forever...

is...

NOW.

Aloha and Mahalos,

Namaste,

Peace,

Reiki Doc

Momi

You are beautiful, Ross said, just a few minutes ago.

He said this while I was in tears.

He encouraged me to put on my new pendant.

I confided to him how scared and afraid I had been to witness the emotions, of my pre-adolescent son, and how I didn't know what to do, and how I was in a world of pain...I was so very tired of being strong, and for having to be 'on' to be heading things off at the pass with that boy emotionally..

And the moment the necklace went on, in a flash, I understand the lesson of momi (moh-mee)- the Hawaiian word for pearl--that very beautiful lessons come out of confusion, fear, and pain.


Win A Pearl:
I should have known when the woman before us at the Dole Plantation counter three days ago was miffed at the Maui Divers sales woman.  I easily read the body language. But my son remembered opening an oyster two years ago, and I thought it might be nice to just buy one oyster for each. (He had just pulled a fifty percent off a pearl coupon from the basket and was very happy).

This lady was something else! Very single minded, very pushy, telling him so thick that 'your mother needs this jewelry' that even my nine-year old got upset. She is the ONLY person at any pearl facility who automatically drilled a hole in the pearl first, without asking. (as a matter of fact, ever since I got my first pearl at Marineland in Palos Verdes when I was nine, I have never, ever had one of my pearls mounted OR drilled.)

We settled on a very small turtle pendant made of gold to mount his beautiful, pink pearl he picked from his oyster. We opted out of the chain she encouraged us to buy. And I also refused a credit application that would have saved me fifty dollars (the interest rate was twenty-six percent!).

'Turtles are lucky!' the sales lady said, as she wrapped it. (they have it all figured out, pink pearls mean love, white ones mean happiness and dark ones mean wisdom).

I thought the expense was worth it for my son to run into one of these women like her--all about the sale, faking that it was all about you, and not taking 'no' for an answer--it was a valuable lesson that will teach him what traits are a huge red flag in a potential mate!


The Chain:
I wanted to look at a store at the Ala Moana mall tonight. The place had changed since I fell in love with it ten years ago. I couldn't recognize it. Just two years ago it had it's 'look'--a breezy, simple mall with some nice stores, but understated tropical theme. They are still adding on to it, and I had to use Navigation to find it when I was only three minutes away.

This jewelry store I was interested in advertised with a sign that said sixty percent off, and I got a fine gold chain for only forty dollars.

I had wanted some earrings, too, so we looked, and my son found a beautiful pair with very small diamonds, at a super reasonable price, that matched the necklace he had bought for me for my birthday. With Ross' symbol on it. I put them on and wore them home.


The Diamond:
Earlier today, I packed a lunch and we made a short trip to Honolulu to Diamond Head State Monument. It was ninety-two degrees. I brought cold water and also a spray fan device. It's strenuous, I won't kid you. Ten years ago I danced ballet with the Hawaii State Junior Company for class to keep in shape while I was at conference for work here and one week away from my studio. (I danced two hours about five times a week, and performed.) And back THEN, I could barely breathe up the ascend! But the view was remarkable.

As you may know, my son has some weight issues, and on top of that, some emotional concerns due to bullying.

I took all of my patience and kindness and encouragement to coax him up that hill. I knew it would build confidence. As it turned out, both his father and teacher never let him rest on strenuous activities--they just yelled at him for falling behind. So we took breaks, I squirted both of us when it got hot, and we took the stairs up 'to the military part'--stairs that go almost straight UP.

On the way down, excited, he encouraged the weary ones going up, that the view was 'so WORTH it!!!'.

He had also helped me get over my fear of heights, too.

It was really good.


Can't Say No:
Ross said, 'Buy him sunglasses' when we were at the Oakley store, and his heart was set on a pair that was one hundred sixty dollars.

I said no.

A nine year old does not need fancy sunglasses. They get lost. He never wears them--has several pairs of decent but much much cheaper ones.

I asked him if I have to pay one hundred fourteen dollars (a clearance Shaun White pair) for him to know I love him?

In my heart of hearts, I knew he wanted them because he is interested in being 'older'. I also knew that he wouldn't like the 'sale' ones once we got home. And more--I knew he would ask me for something else about thirty seconds after we bought them.

He said something, I lost my temper and he started crying and saying he wanted to die. I managed to get us up to the car, but he had the worst emotional meltdown I have seen since he threatened suicide about one month ago. All of the pain from the bullying, all of the anger, all of the rage, all of the hate,  all of the loneliness, came out as he writhed and screamed in the car...

I couldn't drive like that. It wasn't safe.

I couldn't calm him down, and neither could he.

I came that close to calling 911 to take him to a psychiatric ER.

The security guy on the bike came by. He said several people complained about how I was yelling at my son.

I explained politely the situation, how he is under the care of a professional, I thought he might need to go to the hospital, and how I can't drive safely with him like this.  He understood, and said, in true Hawaiian aloha--you can take all the time that you need.

After that, my boy calmed, and as I drove us away,  he shared more about the bullying, and how his teacher called people 'guilty' when they did something wrong, and the emotional toll this last year has been on him at school was such a heavy load for him to bear.


The Lifesaver:
Whoever suggested the Insulin Resistance Diet book, truly, has saved both of our lives. It is working. We have done this now for about two weeks.

My son ate protein for dinner, and for his carb, wanted ice cream. He asked the Haagen Dazs lady for the nutritional guide--she gave him a notebook binder with plastic sheets--and the chocolate ice cream was within his carb limits for the meal.

I see him getting more features in his face and his body going slimmer, and also not having the terrible hunger he used to get like before. It's helping me too, to break that cycle of low blood sugar.

It's set us free.


The Night:
I know from Ross, that our son--(he is the Spiritual Father, he asked me ten years ago at my room in the W Hotel on Diamond Head--I didn't know him at the time but he was 'some guy who seemed interested in my answer' when Blessed Mother asked if I would like to have a baby?  With the biological father, once I got back home from conference, there was one time we were together where his face completely transformed, the new face glowed, and looked very much like Owen Wilson with long hair--of all people! I was pregnant about four weeks after that.)--that our son is going to be okay.

As I lay next to our boy, at his request to help him sleep, I was torn and so tearful when Ross asked gently, 'did you have a hard day?'

I went to my room once the breathing was of sound sleep from the child, and I lost it. I told Ross I was scared.  I was confused. At the same time, I realized we had a lot of important 'stuff' come up from my son's sharing his feelings and my doing what the counselor said and validating his feelings...I also realized that this chakra is WAY out of whack and needs some attention

Ross also said that the trick with our son is to let him think he has the choices and the decisions, when in fact he does not. Like a friend of mine said, 'you make a list of the things the kids can do for vacation activities and you let them pick'.


Momi:
The oyster has a lot of pain from an irritant inside it as it grows.
This is what becomes the lustrous pearl, which shines so beautifully in the light.
The ugly oyster has the best pearls.
I discovered this by accident, when the sales lady at Maui Divers at Dole, had let me pick the pearl oyster that comes 'free' with a purchase. She got four out from under the counter. Ross told me to pick the ugly one (I didn't know that's how it works) and to my surprise two beautiful pink matching pearls came out of the oyster! (she had wanted to sell us earrings)

While the oyster is smoothing away the irritant on the inside, that takes energy that would otherwise go to making a pretty, and symmetrical oyster. Therefore, 'the uglier the oyster, the more beautiful the pearl', and in my case, twin pearls.

I even heard a sales lady--a different one at a different stand at the store (there are three at the plantation)--tell a couple to 'pick the ugliest one'.

They did and got a beautiful dark one that was larger than usual, and the couple was delighted with their find!


So when life 'get you down', I want you to remember two things:

• you ARE beautiful--or handsome--whichever term you prefer.  You ARE!
• maybe life is throwing you a momi--a pearl--and soon you will understand the nature of the lesson.

No wonder why that pearl came to me...to give me hope right now as I wear it around my neck...and to let me know when it comes to my beloved, handsome son...there is a momi lesson for me in being a single parent, with a helping hand from my Twin Flame, and husband from another life who has found me in this dimension because I am a medium and can 'sense' such things...

It is my hope that perhaps this 'lesson' may 'resonate' with you, and give you comfort in times of distress, too.

Ross also let me know that the energies are strong in supporting the powers of manifestation, and that for those who think 'negatively', those feelings are going to magnify the outcomes at this time. This applies for everyone! So keep your positive outlook UP as best you can...

Aloha and Mahalos,

Namaste,

Peace,

Reiki Doc and Ross who loves both her and their little one very much.



P.S. I have been on vacation in Hawaii, but kept it out of the blogs, at Ross' request for some privacy. It is okay now to let you know. Namaste.